LET THE HEART HAVE ITS SAY!

          The very interesting moment in ones life as age passes by is to fall in love with someone,but it is the most dangerous zone that could mark the end of your self confidence and in most cases if I'm not afraid I would say could end your entire life. We live in time now where most young people are attracted so much to the word 'Marriage' & 'Courtship' in the sense that they feel they are in love. Indeed it is a beautiful thing to fall in love but is he or she the one the heart chooses? Many have neglected this question and instead especially with the female, normally ask 'Does he have money?', 'Is he handsome?' etc. I am not saying that it isn't right to settle with a wealthy or handsome gentleman or well established lady but all I ask you today is what is/are your basis for your preference?, what is the core for your decision? My dear brother or sister out there reading this have it in mind that if your reasons for settling down with someone you assume to love is mainly about wealth and looks and not ultimately the Love, then I'm afraid you're widely starring at the image of the true definition of danger.
          In many situations we allow our minds to decide for us when it comes to choosing a life partner without acknowledging the very person who will be hosting that partner(The Heart). One may ask how can the heart speak,think or nevertheless decide? The Holy scriptures according to the book of Proverbs 4:23 "Keep your heart with all vigilance,
for from it flow the springs of life."
If u really pay attention to how you feel and connects your mind with the heart then you will know what the heart is saying. What I am trying to say is never enter into a relationship with your mind alone and leave your heart behind because the mind and the heart always connects to allow us decide on who we want, what we want, where we want and how we want it. I believe that I've spoken some sense to someone at least if not much some bit of sense and I trust as little or much as it may seem it will have an impact in your life should you put it into practice. Not only should you allow your heart to have a say when u fall in love but it should always in everything that you do. And don't forget that with God all things are possible and so never leave Him out! I leave you with this to think through deeply enough to guard your choice and decisions " Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord, not for human masters- Colossians 3:23" Thank you and God bless you.

NB: All quoted scriptures are to support the basis of this piece and hence not the Exact implication as the scriptures may mean,but quite in line to help guard our conscience as we read along. Thank You!